Daddy’s Boy!

Fanatics have gone feral over Archie’s uncanny likeness to Prince Harry after the Duke and Duchess of Sussex released a family picture showing the first peek of baby Lilibet in time for Christmas.

The adorable family picture shows Meghan, 40, holding up their giggling six-month-old daughter, while smiling Harry,37, looks on with his arms around their two-year-old son Archie, in the image by their wedding photographer Alexi Lubomirski.

But supporters couldn’t help but swoon over Archie’s jaw-dropper red hair, commenting on how the little boy, 2, whose face hasn’t been seen properly since his first birthday last year, looked just like his daddy.

One follower wrote that Archie was so cute with his hair.

The Sussexes, who are presently living in a $14.7 million mansion in Montecito, released the card to announce that they’ve made a donation to several charities, including an organisation that supports Afghan families left behind after the US withdrawal and Paid Leave For All, in line with the Duchess’ recent campaigning for a paid family leave law for all Americans.

Their message read that this year they welcomed their daughter, Lilibet, to the world and that as they looked forward to 2022 they’d made donations to several organisations that honour and protect families, from those being relocated from Afghanistan to American families in need of paid parental leave.

It came as the couple, who used the American Happy Holidays expression rather than the British Merry Christmas in their card, prepared to spend their third festive period outside of the United Kingdom, and away from Prince Harry’s family.

In the photo, Harry, Meghan and Archie all opted for a low key look in denim jeans, with the Duchess teaming hers with a navy jumper, while the Duke sported a blue shirt and his son a white one. The couple’s daughter laughs while wearing a white getup.

The look was decidedly relaxed for the Duchess, who’s known for her love of designer clothes and costly personalised jewellery, but it was Archie who robbed the show, as hundreds of fanatics herded to the image shared to the photographer’s Twitter, with another writing that they loved all of their smiling faces, and that Lili was cute and Archie had beautiful hair.

Archie looks just like his dad with his incredible red hair, but clearly, Harry and Meghan didn’t want the public to see him, face on, but even without a frontal of Archie, we can all plainly see that the child is the image of his father.

It’s an adorable picture of the family and they look so happy together. Harry went for what he wanted for his family and he got it, and clearly, his mother’s death had more of an effect on him than we knew about, and quite frankly once the Queen dies, all might be revealed.

Although according to the media, Harry and Meghan didn’t have that many fans because they didn’t agree with what Harry did. But what did Harry do? Well, if you ask me he did what any good man would do for their family. It really doesn’t matter if it was his decision or Meghan’s or both, at the end of the day, they made that decision and stuck to it.

Not everyone is suited to live inside the Royal household with no privacy. Sadly for Harry, he was born into a family of Royals, he didn’t get the option, but Meghan did and she said no, and obviously Harry loved her enough to say it was the best thing to do – he could have said no, nobody was putting a gun to his head.

Sarah-Jane Mee Reveals She Wept As She Walked Out Of The Sky News Studio

Sky News presenter Sarah Jane Mee has demonstrated how having a baby has altered the way she responds to hard-hitting news reports.

The news anchor, 43, from East Sussex, has told how her life has totally changed since she turned 40, going from single and carefree, to engaged and a stepmother to her partner Ben Richardson’s eight-year-old son Teddy, and that the most significant shift was welcoming their daughter Rae, 1, during the lockdown, with Sarah-Jane admitting that she walked out of the studio crying as reports broke revealing footage of a newborn baby being given to Marines over a barbed wired wall by her frantic parents amid the messy US withdrawal in Afghanistan in August.

Talking to a newspaper outlet, Sarah-Jane said that the separation was easier before she became a mum.

She said that she returned from maternity leave just as the Afghanistan withdrawal story broke and that image of a baby being given over the barbed wire to soldiers would torment her permanently and that she had to walk out of the studio when that report was playing because she was crying.

She said that she had to admit that she would have laughed if someone had told her three years ago that she would move to the country, become engaged and welcome a little girl all within three years.

The presenter was introduced to branding agency founder Ben, 42, at a party thrown by mutual friend Autumn Phillips, the ex-wife of Princess Anne’s son Peter, and Sarah-Jane said that having a baby during lockdown had its ups and downs, admitting that having her partner Ben home meant she didn’t feel so isolated during the lockdown and made baby Rae’s first year about mum and dad equally.

However, it also made social media trolls more ruthless than before, with Sarah-Jane admitting that cruel jibes about baby weight bothered her.

She said that when she went back to work after having Rae, social media was overwhelmingly positive but there was one comment that noted her weight. One comment out of hundreds, but that was the one she remembered.

She replied by saying that she had no excuses, but that it wasn’t baby weight, it was lockdown weight and she was sure they had a bit of that too, and she said that she didn’t want them to know it had affected her, but that it did and that she was having such a good day and then one person said the wrong thing, but that you remember that one person and that they would probably never walk up to your face and say it.

I think the main thing here is that the baby was given over to the soldiers where it will be safe and that’s all that matters, although the parents would have been distraught and parents never get over losing a child, for whatever reason it might be. It might get easier as time goes on, but those parents will never forget.

AI Prosecutor Developed In China

Researchers assert that China has created an artificial intelligence prosecutor that can charge people with offences with more than 97 per cent accuracy.

The dystopian machine can recognise dissent against the state and recommend sentences for supposed offenders, pulling people from the prosecution process.

There are already worries the system could be weaponised by the Chinese Communist Party with human prosecutors concerned about who would take accountability for the AI’s findings.

The tool can file a charge based on a verbal description of the case and was created and tested by the Shanghai Pudong People’s Procuratorate, the biggest and busiest district prosecution office in China.

The projects lead scientist Professor Shi Yong said the AI would permit human prosecutors to reduce their workload and allow them to only concentrate on the more complicated cases.

The South China Morning Post said that the system can run on a standard desktop computer and would press charges based on 1,000 markers from the human-generated case description text.

It was trained using 17,000 real-life cases from 2015 to 2020 and is able to recognise and press charges for the eight most typical offences in Shanghai.

These include provoking trouble, a word used to suppress conflict in China, credit card fraud, gambling offences, dangerous driving, theft, fraud, intentional injury and obstructing official duties.

Soon the AI prosecutor will be able to identify more kinds of criminality and file numerous charges against one suspect once it’s upgraded.

Professor Shi Yong said in a paper printed in the Management Review journal that the system could replace prosecutors in the decision making process to a certain degree.

Some AI technology already exists in law enforcement but this would be the first time it’s involved in pressing charges.

In Germany, image recognition and digital forensics are utilised to assist with caseloads, while China uses a device known as System 206 to assess evidence, a suspect’s possible danger and the conditions for the detention, but the system has no part in the decision making process and doesn’t suggest penalties.

One prosecutor in Guangzhou said that he had concerns about the new technology.

He said that the accuracy of 97 per cent might be high from a technological point of view, but there would still be a chance of oversight, and asked who would take accountability when it happens? The prosecutor, the device or the creator of the algorithm?

Any reader familiar with Science Fiction will know where we’re going from here. AI judges, AI Facial Recognition, Chip Implants, Digital Currency Control, and it’s actually no longer fiction because such controls are already in place.

And soon the Social Credit Score system will say that you’ve been a bad boy and now you face the evil AI that can press charges. I mean, what could possibly go wrong?

In the end, you’ll be chained to a conveyor belt whilst the guilty verdicts are given out – all for the sake of efficiency and then you’ll be swiftly transported to your pod cell and appeals will be a thing of the past – doesn’t our future world look bleak?

However, this will only occur and will only work if we comply. Of course, in China, that’s not an option because as a state they will destroy you, but here in the West we must reject any group or movement that wants this, and this certainly isn’t Building Back Better.

I understand that technology has changed our lives, and there is a place for it in our everyday life. However, even as technology has grown we have sent robots to Mars, but there’s no robot that can wash a car better than a human being, and that being the case, how on earth can we allow machines to take over court judgements for humans?

Phew Year’s Eve!

New Year’s Eve is expected to be the warmest on record, forecasters say after regions of Britain saw snow across the Christmas weekend.

The Met Office said that today will see plenty of dry weather in the northern parts of Britain, but the midlands and south are facing extremely wet weather conditions after a somewhat cloudy start.

They warned of a murky and foggy start to the day in England, advising drivers to use their fog lights, not their full beam lights, and to de-mist their windscreen as motorists make long journeys across the country after seeing their families for the holidays.

After a nippy start to the week today, temperatures will remain very mild this week but are set to reach a comfortable 59F (15C) on Friday in parts of England, meaning the country will enjoy similar conditions to those in southern European hotspots like Madrid and Athens.

It will also mean the 2011 record of 58F (14.8C) in Colwyn Bay, North Wales would be broken, making this New Year’s Eve the hottest on record.

A Met Office graphic displayed predictions of 15C in the south, falling to about 13C in the midlands and 10C in the north of Scotland for the last day of 2021. Forecasters said that New Year’s Eve should be drier and slightly brighter than the rest of the week – still extremely mild for many.

It comes after a chilly Boxing Day which saw up to four inches of snow falling on high ground in the early hours with heavy flurries across southern Scotland, Durham, Northumberland, Yorkshire and the Peak District.

The Met Office had declared an official White Christmas after two measuring stations in Scotland registered snowfall on Christmas Day.

One woman was spotted riding a horse in snow-blanketed woods in County Durham, but the blizzards disrupted major roads in the North, including the M62 and A66, which had to be temporarily closed in the morning due to icy conditions.

Some drivers struggled to get going at all after their cars were left concealed in dense snow.

However, the nippy weather was no match for fearless swimmers at Perranporth Beach in Cornwall, and at Ayr, south-west Scotland.

Some sported jolly Santa hats and tinsel as they braved the icy sea.

By yesterday afternoon, much of the snow was melting, the Met Office said, and more temperate air from the Atlantic provided better temperatures than average for this time of the year.

A Restaurant Employee Called Out Of Work After Learning Her Sister Was In A Coma And Dying

A New Mexico woman has shared the horrifying text messages she received from her supervisor after she was called out of work because her sister was lying unconscious in the hospital.

Hillary Zinks received a nightmare phone call last month that her sister had been hospitalised and was declared brain dead, so she immediately drove to Las Vegas to be by her bedside.

But when she informed her supervisor at the restaurant where she works that she wouldn’t be at her next shift, and explained the sad nature of her situation, the supervisor criticised her for giving such little notice, telling her that her fellow workers would have an extremely hard shift because she was missing.

Enraged, Hillary told the woman off and even sent her a photograph of her unconscious sister’s middle finger propped up, before learning from the senior manager days later that the supervisor was no longer employed there.

Hillary is a makeup and effects artist in the film industry but also works as a waitress for extra cash.

In November, she got a call while she was working on the set of a TV series, and discovered that her 40-year-old sister Amber was in a coma, brain dead, could die at any moment, in the hospital.

The reaction from her boss at the TV show was precisely what she would have hoped for, and when her boss found out, Hillary was told to go home and do whatever was needed and be with her family, and that there was no job in the world worth missing life over.

Speaking to BuzzFeed, Hillary explained that her sister was totally unresponsive and the nurses were looking for next of kin to make decisions on her behalf if need be.

She said that she was broken-hearted and frozen and that she didn’t even have time to register all of it before deciding to leave to be with her sister.

On her way to Las Vegas to be with her sister, Hillary sent a text to her supervisor at her restaurant job to inform them that she would be missing from her next shift.

She said that their reaction was extremely cruel.

First, Hillary texted to say she wouldn’t be able to make it to her next shift because she had to drive to Nevada because her sister was dying in the hospital there, and she promised to let the supervisor know when she’d be back and even apologised for the inconvenience.

Her supervisor’s response started off kindly enough and said that they did understand and was sorry for what she was experiencing, but then the supervisor’s words turned sour and it said that she was curious as to why Hillary was letting them know only 2 hours before her shift.

Hillary replied that she had to leave at one in the morning, to which her supervisor first reiterated that she had compassion for her situation but was still not pleased about it.

This is an extremely heartbreaking situation, although Hillary using her sister’s finger to show that she was dying and in the hospital was the very last thing that she should have been doing, but then I guess she was so furious that it was the first thing she thought to do to demonstrate that she wasn’t fibbing about her sister dying.

This kind of private stuff should never be made public and because it has been made public it has made Hillary appear worse than the supervisor in some people’s eyes, although Hillary did get her point across, and the supervisor was a monster, and let it be a lesson for other awful bosses that read what went on and learn from it.

When you’re put in a position where you have to choose your job over a dying loved one it’s never a good situation, and when working in a job that won’t give you time off because your loved one is dying in hospital, then is that a job that you really want, but then do you really want to be unemployed either – it’s the devil and the deep blue sea, but we should also be extremely careful when judging other people because you might one day find yourself walking in their shoes.

Is That A Toilet On A Pink-Tiled Stage?

We all fancied ourselves as a bit of a DIY guru during at least one of the lockdowns, didn’t we?

Well, even if this wasn’t you, these photos show some people most definitely did, and it backfired with quirky design ideas that don’t make any sense.

My Health Gazette shared these outlandish images from all over the world that show the most bizarre home designs, from having a toilet on a pink tiled stage, or a toilet with no door, to stairs that lead to nowhere.

Or even a toilet in the shower? A toilet with a roll that dispenses from the lid? Or a toilet right in the sight of your neighbours? But it doesn’t stop there, one homeowner put a second front door right on top of the one you walk into, two metres above the other.

Here are the most bizarre design choices that beg the question, what on earth were they thinking?

Time and time again these photographs get rolled out, and that hairy staircase, well, I’d be combing it all the time, and extremely unworkable, but typically people have diverse preferences and it’s a great idea that some people are different. I guess it’s better than beige and boring.

I suppose the door on the second floor has a purpose, especially if you live in a country with lots of snowfall – that way you don’t get trapped in your house, although you’d need a big step ladder.

And I’m guessing the bathroom door with all the locks on, is likely to be due to someone wanting to create a safe room where they can retreat in case of intruders or fear of a violent ex hunting them down.

The house that has a small door above the main door looks like it’s from the 1700s or before. It may have been a supply area. They would use a winch to lift hefty items up to that area, rather than schlep them through the house and up a staircase.

Everyone has their own style. It might not be everyone’s taste, but who are we to criticise someone’s else’s home? And it’s lovely to see people living in their homes and not just treating it like something that needs to be sold one day.

A Disgraced Huntswoman Was Filmed Kicking And Slapping Her Horse During A Hunt

A disgraced primary school teacher filmed booting and beating a horse during a hunt has been sacked.

Sarah Moulds, who was condemned by the RSPCA for apparent animal brutality after shocking footage of her emerged, has now lost her job at Somerby School after she was suspended last month.

The disgraced rider and mother of two from Somerby, near Melton Mowbray, Leicestershire, learned her fate following a six-week investigation by education chiefs.

Mowbray Education Trust Chief Operating Officer Paul Maddox said in a statement that he could confirm that Sarah Mould’s employment with the Trust had been terminated, and he said that as a Trust they’re committed to ensuring the best standard of education for all of their young people and they looked forward to continuing this throughout the 2021/22 academic year and beyond.

Sarah Mould’s was a senior leader and class three-team teacher at the local Somerby School and was also a director of the Knossington and Somerby Pre-School before her termination.

The 37-year-old was seen lashing out at the horse following a Cottesmore Hunt meet in the county earlier this year.

A clip captured by anti-hunt activists went viral, sparking anger nationally and globally.

The Pony Club, which claims to be the world’s biggest equestrian youth organisation with more than 30,000 UK members, also axed her as a team manager while condemning her actions as unacceptable.

In the aftermath of the video going viral, Sarah Mould’s received abuse and death threats and moved to a secret location away from her semi-detached £350,000 property for several days, and a neighbour told how she fled because she feared for her life, saying she had to go away after receiving death threats and loads of appalling abuse, and that it’s horrible and has got very much out of hand, and now she fears for her life.

The neighbour added that they didn’t know what occurred and in what context but what’s now happening to Sarah was awful, and she’s scared of being in her own home in case someone targets her or her children there.

The local rider added that she has young children and is worried about them as well as herself and that she’s well known and respected in equestrian circles and her social media was inundated with comments from extremely infuriated people after the video went viral and she’s now closed it down.

Of course, now we wonder if she should be allowed to continue in any job that involves children, although I’m sure she will win at her tribunal because whatever she does outside of school is nothing to do with them, although she obviously has anger problems, this was not just about having a bad day.

This was shocking behaviour and totally unacceptable. However, you can’t infer that she would hurt a child because she did this to an animal – there’s a massive difference between animals and humans, but even so, this is no way to reprimand a horse and there’s just no excuse for it.

It’s obvious that this lady was having a bad day, and if she did make a mistake and demonstrates remorse for it, then she could gradually start to build her life up again, and if she does acknowledge her mistake, then she deserves a second chance.

And it’s okay for people to go on fox hunts for pleasure, but when someone hits a horse it’s the biggest thing in the world, and as for those people who go on these fox hunts, does this mean they should be sacked from their jobs as well?

After Dating For Only Two Weeks, A Woman, 18, And Her Boyfriend, 20, Claim They’ve Married

A young couple claim they got hitched after only two weeks of courting because they believed it was the best way to commit to each other.

Clara Bell, 18, and Trey Bell, 20, tied the knot in a dreamy Florida beach wedding with a $200 service, just three hours after deciding to get hitched.

Teenage bride Clara, from Louisville, Kentucky, announced her spontaneous nuptials on TikTok on October 16, when she shared a video captioned ‘getting married in three hours, stay tuned’.

Follow up videos featuring images of the newlyweds hugging on the beach have acquired more than five million views and thousands of comments.

It’s possible to get a marriage licence and wed the same day in Florida, but couples must have completed a pre-marriage course beforehand, or else there’s a three day wait.

Clara and Trey haven’t explained when or if they took the course.

Clara and Trey, who make money through TikTok, had met and briefly dated in 2018 before going their separate ways.

After reconnecting on Snapchat in September and spending two weeks together as a couple, the pair took a trip to Panama City in Florida and finished up eloping.

Clara said that they were dating for two weeks before the wedding, and spent every day together during that time and got married on the same day that Trey suggested the idea and then they eloped.

She said that their families didn’t attend because it was so last minute, and that it was literally just the two of them. There was a minister who they had come to the beach with a photographer, but that was it.

She said that when Trey first proposed the idea of getting married, she was pretty on board and they just did it, and she said that their families were definitely surprised and that she hadn’t told her parents about Trey. So, not only did she have to say she was married, she had to introduce them to her husband because they didn’t know him.

She said it was surprising in a shocking way, but that her parents are happy now that they’ve met Trey and she said that she’s met his parents and that they’re super pleased for them both, but at the time, they were stunned and confused, although not shocked in a bad way.

I mean, what could possibly go wrong? Because usually when it comes to marriage, a woman only needs to ask herself one question, is this the man that I want to have children and spend every second with? And I would imagine that if things don’t work out, their divorce process is going to be a lot more complicated and a lot more costly than their wedding ceremony.

Of course, not all couples that get married young end up in divorce, some are happily married for years and years, or until they die, sometimes it can be a good thing, but not always – it will either work, or it won’t, we will just have to see, and their prospects of an extremely good marriage are like most people who take the plunge.

If you’re good at forgiving and flexible and working to grow through each stage together, you can make things work, although the probabilities are low, particularly in today’s society, but it isn’t unheard of.

By New Year’s Eve, A Third Of Bars, Pubs, And Clubs Might Close

A third of bars, pubs and clubs could close by New Year’s Eve as hospitality bosses plead for clarity from ministers on COVID 19 restrictions.

The industry is facing a tumultuous Christmas and bosses have called for financial support amid a rise of the Omicron variant.

Peter Marks, chief executive at REKOM, told BBC Radio 4’s Today programme that running a nightclub has been extraordinarily difficult and called for ministers to slash VAT for venue entry and that if we have restrictions they need money to survive.

A survey by the Night Time Industries Association (NTIA) of more than five hundred nightclubs, bars, pubs and hospitality outlets has indicated that the sector faces a tumultuous Christmas.

One-fifth of nightlife businesses could lose their entire workforce and one third fear closure within a month without urgent Government help following new COVID restrictions and Omicron uncertainty.

On average, nighttime economy venues have lost £46,000 per unit in lost sales and cancellations during the festive period.

Jonathan Neame, Shepherd Neame chief executive told BBC Radio 4’s Today Programme his chain saw a considerable reduction in footfall in London.

In other coronavirus news, all sporting events in Wales will be held behind closed doors from Boxing Day due to the surge in coronavirus cases.

London’s New Year’s Eve festivities event in Trafalgar Square won’t take place because of the surge in cases of the Omicron COVID variant in the capital.

Boris Johnson has stepped back from imposing punitive lockdown curbs that would have ruined Christmas after a lengthy Cabinet meeting called for indisputable evidence on the Omicron variant.

Cambridge professor Sir David Spiegelhalter said the fact that half of the patient’s in London hospitals were only diagnosed with COVID after admission with another illness showed COVID was rampant in London.

Boris Johnson’s ex-aide Dominic Cummings and ex Health Secretary Matt Hancock have been revealed to be among government staff pictured working in the Downing Street garden during the lockdown.

Over half of businesses required to introduce COVID Certification for entry to their premises report seeing over a 40 per cent decline in footfall, and half of all businesses in the nighttime economy will have to cut over half of jobs in their workforce if the Government doesn’t deliver proportional financial support.

Mr Marks added that they can’t say how much the problem of shrinkage they’ve had in the last few days has been down to vaccine passports or whether it’s been down to the fear of going out, but that what he could say was that they’re running at 40 per cent down at a period of time which was absolutely essential for them as a business.

This country is ruined and the Government have done this to businesses and now they’re suffering.

The Government have been criticised for locking down, criticised for not locking down, appears they can’t do right from wrong and who in their right mind would want to be a cabinet minister right now?

Businesses make more money on the lead up to Christmas than they do all year round. Take that away and those businesses are going to go bankrupt, and it seems that the Government are hellbent on demolishing the economy.

But are we really expected to believe that crowds of people in Regents Street all rushed home without having a meal or drink because they were all worried about COVID despite spending the day in crowds of people and shops?

It’s Christmas and everyone will have been running about like headless chickens to get their Christmas gifts, although the streets will have been less busy than normal because of all this scaremongering, but this is what Governments want, to keep people indoors so that they can do their shopping online, that way Governments can keep an eye on us and manipulate what we do. There’s an agenda here, but nobody can see it!

A Pregnant Woman Is Advised To Leave Her Husband

An expectant woman was advised to leave her husband after he flew into a drunken frenzy, breaking a glass and damaging the television.

The British woman took to parenting forum Mumsnet to explain how her spouse, who she’s been with for seven years, returned home from a night out with mates extremely inebriated and fell asleep, then awoke soon afterwards in a violent temper.

The woman wrote that there was a glass in the sink which he attempted to clean up and that she told him to leave it and that he should go back to bed. He then threw the glass as hard as possible at the kitchen surface and it went everywhere, and that a bit narrowly missed her eye, and that he was so furious, apparently for no reason.

She said that he then pulled a picture off the wall in the spare bedroom and used it to smash up the TV and that she was begging him to stop. There was glass everywhere again, and that the dog was scared and so was she.

She added that she was in shock and that it wasn’t like him at all. He’s not a violent person.

Fellow Mumsnet users urged her to leave the relationship, saying it could be the start of domestic violence.

One posted: ‘Has he ever smashed things before? This can’t be the first occurrence as it’s quite an escalation from nothing to smashing the TV?

‘How long have you been together? Honestly, I’d leave, I have had this and stayed thinking he’d get better, he didn’t.’

Another commented on the fact that Violet was ‘newly pregnant’, and wrote: ‘And there it is. You’re pregnant. You know that most domestic violence starts during the victim’s pregnancy don’t you?’

‘Over a third of domestic violence starts or gets worse when a woman is pregnant. 15 per cent of women report violence during their pregnancy. 40-60 per cent of women experiencing domestic violence are abused while pregnant.’

A third noted that previously being a loving man doesn’t make this behaviour acceptable: ‘He is a violent person. He’s been violent. Does he have a drinking problem?

‘If you aren’t prepared to call the police or leave him immediately then you must look very carefully at his response when he wakes and sees what he has done. If he is appalled and commits to never drinking excessively again including getting professional help then there may be less risk of this happening again. But if he minimises or blames then it’s over.’

It’s relatively common for a violent partner to start the abuse when a woman is pregnant, and sometimes leaving is the only choice, but then I suppose it depends on if he wanted the child or not or if he’s feeling trapped and betrayed.

Sometimes it’s because the man feels insecure now that his partner is pregnant and he feels helpless.

If this guy is a decent man he will leave and remove himself for the safety and protection of the woman and his unborn child, making sure that his partner is safe, emotionally and financially supported and step back completely whilst he addresses his problems with experienced help, and anything less than that exposes his complete absence of credibility.

However, we don’t know the circumstances, where he was and what kind of company he was in, and it could be that his drink was spiked, but he should still leave whilst he finds out what his issues are.

Sadly I had a friend whose partner went to a party and he came back and smashed up several things. She called the police and he spent the night in the cells. He’d never been violent before. The police brought him back the next day. He was going to leave the family home because of what he’d done, but the police said they believe his drink had been spiked. They talked it out and he stayed but was extremely careful when he went out for a drink and kept his drink with him all the time. It never happened again.

Could he have been on any other drugs or other things that she doesn’t know about? Perhaps money worries, or that he’s not happy about the child or their relationship. His actions shouldn’t be forgiven, but when someone acts like this, especially if they’re not usually a violent person, it could be a build-up of issues that he can’t cope with.

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