THE NATURE OF THE CAGE THAT WE LIVE IN

Hannah Arendt cautioned us seventy years ago that the greatest threat was not persuading people to believe the lies, but rather making them completely give up on the truth.

Hannah was a German-born political philosopher who fled Nazi Germany and spent her entire life trying to understand how civilised societies could descend into totalitarian darkness.

She made the point that these systems succeed by impairing people’s capacity for rational thought rather than by persuading them of an ideology.

She actually summed it up perfectly. She said that the ideal matter of totalitarian rule is not the convinced Nazi or the convinced Communist, but people for whom the distinction between fact and fiction, and the distinction between true and false, no longer exists.

The goal my friends is not the belief, but the confusion.

The idea is to make people so overwhelmed by conflicting information and endless lies that, ultimately, people just give up trying to figure out what’s actually true because when truth and lies muddy together, right and wrong start to blur too, and once this occurs, people are easy to control.

This is not because they’ve been convinced, but because they stop thinking for themselves, and totalitarian education isn’t about teaching people what to believe, it’s about eliminating their ability to believe in anything at all.

People will cease resisting when they stop caring, trusting, and asking questions. As the world around them turns darker, they simply drift along, numb and distant.

Lies corrode society within, and persistent lying doesn’t just spread misinformation; it eats away at the very idea of truth itself.

When every fact is treated as debatable. When everything becomes just someone’s opinion, then truth loses its power, and when truth has no power, neither does justice or morality.

As Nazi Germany unfolded, the lies became so constant and overwhelming that people simply stopped caring about what was true, and that space made for unimaginable atrocities.

I am not assigning blame, but this is a warning because this can happen anywhere and to any society when people give up on truth.

Violence isn’t usually the first step. It begins with bewilderment, scepticism, and mental tiredness, and we are lost as soon as we cease to critically analyse, even about our own beliefs.

However, totalitarianism doesn’t appear out of nowhere. It begins quietly, in the erosion of truth and the rise of apathy. It flourishes when people just shrug and say, ‘You can’t trust anyone,’ or ‘who even knows the truth anymore.’

We must safeguard our capacity for thought. We must demand proof. We must continue to be curious. When the truth ceases to matter, all else collapses; therefore, don’t let the lies, uncertainty, or exhaustion drive you to lose interest in what is true.

Hurricane Melissa, With CROCODILES

Following Hurricane Melissa, thousands of British visitors are still stuck in Jamaica amid concerns that crocodiles could be swimming in flooded streets.

As many as 8,000 British citizens are on the Caribbean island, which last night was struck by one of the most powerful Atlantic hurricanes in history that left ‘catastrophic winds’ and ‘flash flooding’ in its path. 

Melissa tore through parts of Jamaica with winds of up to 185mph and torrential rain. Heavy floodwaters swept across the region as wind ripped roofs off buildings and boulders plunged into roads, with landslides, fallen trees and multiple power outages reported.

But in the capital, Kingston, officials warned those in the surrounding area to watch out for crocodiles that may be displaced from their natural river habitat due to severe flooding.

In a post on X, the US National Hurricane Centre (NHC) warned that it is an ‘extremely dangerous and life-threatening situation’ and that ‘catastrophic winds, flash flooding and storm surge’ were ongoing in the country. 

Mike Brennan, director of the NHC, told BBC News that heavy rainfall and damaging winds will continue to affect the majority of the island overnight on Tuesday and that an additional six to 12 inches of rain was possible.

He added that even after the storm passed over the island, the ‘flooding risk, and just the post-storm environment in Jamaica, is going to be extremely dangerous with widespread trees and power lines down, significant structural damage’ and that it will remain a dangerous environment, particularly in the west and in the mountains, ‘for days, if not weeks to come’.

The Jamaican government previously ordered evacuations from high-risk places, and all the country’s airports are closed, while the UK Foreign, Commonwealth and Development Office (FCDO) urged British nationals in Jamaica to register their presence through the Government website to obtain updates from the FCDO on the hurricane.

Speaking in the Commons, Foreign Secretary Yvette Cooper said: ‘The FCDO stands ready to help British nationals 24/7.

‘We have set up a crisis centre in the Foreign Office, including with support from the (Ministry of Defence), and also we are positioning specialist rapid deployment teams to provide consular assistance to British nationals in the region.

‘Any British nationals who are there should follow our travel advice and the advice of the Jamaican authorities.

‘There are 50,000 dual nationals who live in Jamaica, up to 8,000 British citizens who may be travelling there or may be on holiday there.’

The NHC said those on the island should remain in their shelter overnight and advised that an interior room without windows, where falling trees can also be avoided, was the safest place within a building.

A British man who cut his holiday in Jamaica short and paid £3,500 for last-minute flights home for his family before the airports shut said he felt ‘completely let down’ by the UK Government’s response to the hurricane.

David Rowe, who is from Hertfordshire and spent ten days in Jamaica before flying home on Saturday because of the storm, said of the FCDO’s response: ‘The advice should have been last week, like on the Saturday – don’t travel – because a lot of the travel companies use the FCDO guidance on travel (for) all their planning and what decisions they make as an organisation.’

The IT manager, 47, continued: ‘There should have been something done much sooner than this and a lot of the UK nationals and people on holiday there are stranded.

‘This could have been prevented with better action from the UK Government.’

Kyle Holmes, who is from Bolton and visiting Jamaica for a wedding with his wife and three daughters, told BBC Manchester that his hotel in the town of Lucea now looks like a ‘disaster zone’.

Speaking on Tuesday, Mr Holmes told the BBC his family are now safe after the ‘worst experience ever’ and barricading the windows of the family’s room with furniture.

According to reports, seven individuals have already died across the Caribbean, including one in the Dominican Republic, three in Jamaica, and three in Haiti.

Briton Shantell Nova Rochester and her Jamaican fiancé Denva Wray told Sky News they were ‘as safe as they can possibly be’ in St Elizabeth.

Mr Wray said: ‘Where we are is quite strong, sturdy, but you can hear a lot of wind. It is a bit scary, but we’ve got each other, so we are strong.’

Web outage monitoring service Netblocks posted on X that connectivity dropped to just 30 per cent of normal levels due to the storm.

The NHC downgraded the storm to a Category 3 just before 6 am UK time on Wednesday, warning it was expected to make landfall in Cuba ‘soon’ as an ‘extremely dangerous major hurricane’.

It had earlier warned that some mountainous regions of Jamaica were predicted to receive up to 30 inches of rain.

In an X post early on Wednesday, Cuban President Miguel Díaz-Canel Bermúdez stated that more than 735,000 people across the country had been evacuated.

The Jamaican government stated that it had done all it could to prepare and warned of potentially devastating damage from the strongest hurricane to hit the island since record-keeping began 174 years ago.

Jamaican-born Ambrosine Townsend, who lives in Kent, said she was waiting for news of family and friends.

‘I’m very confident she’s well prepared,’ Ms Townsend told the BBC about her sister, having endeavoured to persuade her to stay with friends further down the coast.

‘Even though I trust her, I tried to persuade her. Because I know that things can change. But she was adamant that she would be OK.’

Travel company Tui urged its customers to follow the advice of local authorities, while UK travel trade organisation Abta warned British tourists in Jamaica to do the same, as well as to monitor local news and follow advice from their accommodation and travel providers.

On Tuesday night, Ms Cooper urged British nationals to register their presence in Jamaica so consular support could be provided.

‘We stand ready to support Jamaica as Hurricane Melissa hits the island,’ she said in a post on X.

An FCDO spokesperson said: ‘We understand how worrying developments in Jamaica are for British nationals and their families.

‘Our travel advice includes information about hurricane season, which runs from June to November. Last Thursday, we updated our travel advice for Jamaica to include a warning about Tropical Storm Melissa and that it was expected to intensify over the coming days.

‘The safety and security of British nationals is our top priority, and that is why we are urging any British nationals in Jamaica to follow the guidance of the local authorities.’

The storm is heading towards Cuba, where it is anticipated to make landfall as a major hurricane early on Wednesday.

To be honest, I think that local Jamaicans who have now lost their homes and jobs are the ones to worry about, but a note to those who want to holiday in Jamaica, don’t go during hurricane season.

It’s shocking and frightening what’s happened in Jamaica, and I do feel extremely sad for the people who live there, but nobody ever mentions the wildlife that would have been destroyed in the floods, and food is going to be extremely scarce now.

I do fear for the Jamaican people who would have lost their homes, livelihoods and possessions. The tourists will soon be flown back home, but the people of Jamaica will have to cope with the aftermath for an extremely long time to come.

It actually doesn’t pay to holiday abroad – too much can go wrong, and what’s wrong with holidaying in the UK? We have some beautiful places that people can visit – it saves on costly flights, plus destroying the ozone layer.

One-In-One-Out Migrant Still In UK After Returning From France

The migrant who re-entered the UK via a small boat after being deported under the ‘one-in, one-out’ deal with France is still in the country, the border security minister has said.

The Iranian man’s second dinghy crossing took place just 29 days after he was kicked out of Britain under Sir Keir Starmer’s flagship borders policy.

The Conservatives previously said the debacle showed the Government’s return deal with France was ‘descending into farce’.

Alex Norris today confirmed the migrant is yet to be removed, but rejected suggestions that the situation proves Labour’s scheme is not fit for purpose.

Speaking to Sky News, the minister said: ‘He’s wasting a lot of his own time. He’s come through; he was detected immediately at the front door, he was detained, and he will be removed from this country.

‘He hasn’t gone yet, but he will be removed.’

Asked when the migrant would be deported, the minister said: ‘I wouldn’t want to give a specific timeline, but we are removing him as soon as possible.’

Questioned whether the case suggested the returns deal is not fit for purpose, Mr Norris said: ‘No, not at all.

‘The reality is people are always going to test your front door, test your boundaries. This person’s done that, and totally wasted their time in doing so.’

It comes after other migrants who were deported to France under Labour’s scheme escaped their asylum centre and vowed to return to Britain via a small boat, it emerged yesterday. 

Several deportees are understood to have already fled their accommodation in Paris, with their sights set on re-entering the UK. 

‘Abdul’ and ‘Ali’ complained of a lack of support offered to migrants in France compared to the UK, saying there is homelessness and a lack of housing.

‘Ali’ went on to claim his future had been ‘destroyed because of the UK government’.

Speaking to Channel 4 News, the pair said: ‘We are just looking for a safe [place]. If we have a chance to go back legally, we would. I will try my best again to go to the UK.

‘I don’t have any choice. If I go [back] to my country, the government will kill me. I think I’ll be (only) safe in the UK.’

The pair added they are now considering another Channel crossing after claiming officials sent them to France without a clear reason or support. 

Several deportees in their group have also absconded from the accommodation and have not been seen for several days, it is understood, with some likely to attempt to re-enter the UK. 

The Iranian national who returned to Britain via a small boat despite being part of the scheme had first arrived in the UK on August 6. 

He was initially removed on September 19 but skipped a migrant shelter in Paris, where he had been accommodated, and headed back to the northern French coast. 

There, he boarded a dinghy back to the UK, arriving on Saturday, less than a month after he was booted out.

He is currently being detained in a British immigration detention facility after border authorities used biometric checks to identify him as a returned migrant.

The total number of small boat migrants to have arrived since Labour came to power has skyrocketed past 60,000.

This year has seen the second-highest annual number of small boat migrants since the problem began almost seven years ago, topping the 36,816 witnessed last year, but welcome to the UK, the laughing stock of the world.

Keir Starmer needs to resign; he’s not up to the job, but then neither were his predecessors either.

Where is the proof that these migrants will be killed if they go back to their country of origin? If their lives were in so much peril, wouldn’t they just use the legal route as an asylum seeker?

No, this lot wants the freebies that they know they will get when they get here, and nothing more, unless you include raping and assaulting our women. Some of them even go back home to their country of origin for holidays, but when you have clowns running our country, it will always be a comedy show – perhaps we should have Keir Starmer on Open Mic Night!

Hadush Kebatu Was Set Free From HMP Chelmsford By Mistake

The government was forced to issue a frantic plea to the public to help them hunt down a migrant sex offender who was accidentally freed from prison. The man has now been located.

Hadush Kebatu was set free from HMP Chelmsford by mistake on Friday, just four weeks after being convicted for sexually assaulting a 14-year-old girl and a woman in Epping, Essex, while being accommodated at an asylum seeker hotel.

The 38-year-old Ethiopian, whose crimes sparked demonstrations outside The Bell Hotel in Epping and around the country, was awaiting transfer to an immigration detention centre ahead of his planned deportation, but bumbling prison staff released him instead.

To further embarrassment, it emerged that prison staff directed him away from the prison towards the train station, and that Kebatu even tried to return to the prison, but was turned away.

The convicted sex offender was filmed in Chelmsford talking to members of the public before boarding a 12.41 pm train to London Liverpool Street.

The Metropolitan Police released CCTV footage of Kebatu in the Dalston area of Hackney just before 8 pm. He was also picked up on CCTV at a library in Dalston Square two hours earlier. He was still wearing his prison-issue grey tracksuit while clutching his white tote bag with avocados on it.

This man was behind bars because he had committed several serious sex crimes, and he was not meant to be in this country. Instead of being released, he should have been taken to a deportation centre. Many blunders have been made here, and whoever is responsible for this needs to be sacked immediately.

It has now emerged that the prison officers told Kebatu that he had to make his own way to the removal centre on his own.

A delivery driver told Sky News: ‘I heard one of the officers saying, ‘This is how you get to the station, you go down here…’ [he] directed him to the station and said he had to get on a train to get to this place… This conversation was at the front of the prison.’

In what caused further disbelief is that Kebatu spent more than 90 minutes hanging around outside the prison because he just didn’t know where to go or what to do.

The driver, who was delivering equipment to the prison, said: ‘[The officers] were basically sending him away, saying, ‘Go, you’ve been released, you go’.

Labour’s handling of the immigration situation is now under scrutiny due to the fiasco.

It comes amid a backlash against measures to tackle illegal migration after a man who was deported under the ‘one in, one out’ scheme with France reappeared on UK shores, having crossed the Channel again in a small boat.

Tory MP for Epping Forest, Neil Hudson, called Kebatu’s release a ‘catastrophic mistake’ which had ‘deeply distressed, upset and angered’ the whole community, adding that ‘accountability must go right to the top’.

Even after being set free, Kebatu kept going ‘back and forth’ into the prison reception area seeking help and showing staff a wad of paperwork about his case, according to the driver.

‘I’m not sticking up for the guy, but in my eyes he wanted to do the right thing and go to the right place,’ he said.

‘He knew he was getting deported, but he didn’t know where to go or how he should get there. He kept scratching his head and saying, ‘Where do I go, where do I go?’

He added that the officers had no interest in helping him, saying, ‘You’re released, you’re released’.

Kebatu was jailed for a year last month after assaulting his 14-year-old victim. During his trial, Chelmsford Magistrates’ Court heard that he acted ‘ignorantly and repulsively’. 

The migrant became aroused as he put his hand on the girl’s thighs and stroked her hair despite knowing ‘full well she was only 14’. He said he wanted to have a baby with her and asked her back to The Bell Hotel, where he was living.

Then, when a woman tried to stop him, Kebatu put his hand on her leg and complimented her appearance before attempting to kiss her.

The asylum seeker gave his age as 38 during a court appearance, but a judge said he had witnessed information revealing he was 41. 

Met Police Commander James Conway advised Kebatu to give himself up, saying: ‘We want to locate you in a safe and controlled way. You had already indicated a desire to return to Ethiopia when speaking to immigration staff. The best outcome for you is to make contact directly with us.’

He said the asylum seeker had taken ‘a number of journeys’ across London since his release on Friday and had ‘access to funds’.

It’s obvious that total idiots are in charge of our country, but then if they weren’t permitted into the UK in the first place, we wouldn’t have to have our police force running about like headless chickens trying to locate this man.

Our government are so inept that he will likely end up back in the same prison he came from, and no one would have noticed!

Was this man genuinely let out of prison by error, or was it done on purpose? You just have to ask yourself the question.

How Labour have betrayed us and put our well-being and safety at risk is indeed criminal and beggars belief.

If it weren’t so tragic and dangerous, it would be laughable. The first obligation of our government is to keep people safe. Can anyone truthfully say Labour has done this since taking power?

Fawlty Towers Star Prunella Scales Dies Aged 93

Fawlty Towers star Prunella Scales has passed away aged 93 after a years-long battle with dementia.

The renowned actress was best known for her role as the overbearing Sybil Fawlty, wife of John Cleese’s Basil, in the BBC satire Fawlty Towers.

Although the programme ran for just 12 episodes across two seasons, Prunella’s performance cemented her standing as a household name.

Her death comes just under a year after her husband, the legendary performer Timothy West, passed away aged 90.

As seen on their TV programme Great Canal Journeys, Prunella endeared themselves to millions of fans with her endurance in the face of her illness, which she was diagnosed with in 2013 after years of symptoms. 

It was in 2001 that Timothy first noticed signs of his wife’s condition, when he saw her perform in a play and realised she was ‘not completely in character’.

Timothy movingly told in his 2023 memoir: ‘One thought in particular almost floored me: what if it’s Alzheimer’s?’

Prunella appeared in hundreds of television, stage, cinema, and radio productions in addition to her most well-known role.

She obtained a Bafta nomination for her performance as Queen Elizabeth II in the BBC’s 1991 TV adaptation of playwright Alan Bennett’s A Question of Attribution.

She co-starred in the movie Howards End with her son, Sam.

Additionally, she received two Olivier Award nominations for her performances in the Bennett productions Make and Break and Single Spies.

She also had a notable one-woman show, “An Evening with Queen Victoria,” which ran for over 20 years. 

The star was born in Surrey in 1932. Her father, a cotton salesman, brought his family up in a rented farmhouse that had no electricity or mains water.

After attending an Eastbourne boarding school, she was awarded a scholarship to attend the Old Vic drama school.

Her first position was at the Bristol Old Vic as an assistant stage manager.

Acting roles came in abundance after that.

However, Prunella’s reputation in British comedic folklore would be solidified during her time in Fawlty Towers.

The sitcom, which told the story of hapless Basil Fawlty’s endeavours to run a hotel while being reprimanded by his shrieking wife, remains one of the country’s best-loved creations.

This is even though the programme ran for just two series, in 1975 and 1979.

Prunella told The Mail in 2000, the year that Fawlty Towers was named the greatest British TV programme in a poll: ‘It is wonderful how it has not dated.

‘I am very proud of Sybil and grateful to her. I still get the odd repeat cheque, which helps to pay for my work in the theatre.’ 

The star met Timothy in 1961, when they were both working on the television play She Died Young, which West later described as ‘terrible’.

Prunella later said that her future husband was ‘charming’.

‘He wore a different waistcoat every day and a variety of decoratives,’ she added. 

At first, the two were merely friends because Timothy was still married to his first wife, actress Jacqueline Boyer.

Boyer, a manic depressive, left West unsure ‘what I would come home to’, he wrote in the Daily Mail in 2003. 

Before their marriage failed, the couple had a daughter named Juliet.

Timothy claimed his first wife was having an affair with ‘Rodger the lodger’, while he and Scales had ended up starting to see each other romantically.

Prunella’s letters to West were revealed in Teresa Ransom’s 2005 biography.

In one, written before the actor and his wife had divorced, Scales said: ‘Rehearsing this Monday, so I suppose lunch would be possible though wildly frustrating.

‘Bless you for sweet letter… Refuse to apologise for my writing. God bless you, too. Love, I think, P.’ 

Timothy and his first wife decided to get a divorce in 1963, and he and Prunella married rapidly afterwards, in October that year. 

They spent their honeymoon in Buckinghamshire at what Prunella later said she discovered was a ‘dirty weekend place’.

Timothy admitted that the couple used to have fierce rows, including one which led to the actor pulling out some of his wife’s hair. 

Prunella then kept the clump in an envelope. ‘I felt a bit cross that she was making so much of it,’ Timothy said.

But he touchingly added: ‘Whoever is left when one of us dies will be absolutely devastated.’

On the flipside, their marriage remained romantically lively in their later years and survived even though both stars were often away for long periods due to work.

In 2000, Prunella spoke of her raunchy romantic life with her husband, saying: ‘We still have quite a lively sex life, thank you very much.

‘And it gets, you know, better as the years go by.’  

The couple’s first son, Sam, was born in 1966. His birth was followed by that of his youngest son, Joseph, on New Year’s Day in 1969.

While his brother has avoided the spotlight, Sam followed in his parents’ footsteps and is now a big star in his own right.

Tragically, the last 20 years of Prunella’s life were shaped by the advance of her dementia. 

Despite her sickness, she managed to work well into her later years.

And her appearance in Great Canal Journeys alongside her husband lasted for seven years, from 2014 until 2021.

West discussed his wife’s health in his biography, Pru & Me.

He said: ‘What I miss most of all, I think, is us no longer being able to share our hopes and fears with one another.

‘You can have a conversation or go to the theatre with anybody, but you cannot bare your soul to just anyone.

‘Still, my regrets are tempered by the fact that Pru is happy and knows she is loved.

‘We also have a large and caring family, plenty of friends and a house and garden that Pru feels safe in and adores. Most of all, we have each other.’

Prunella Scales was a beautiful, talented and classy lady and has now been reunited with her darling husband.

It is extremely sad that we hear of her passing, but she has left a legacy that we will continue viewing on our televisions for numerous years to come.

A Newborn Baby Was Thrown From A Fourth-Floor Window

A newborn baby has perished after reportedly being hurled 40 feet from a window by her five-year-old sister. 

The tragedy came as the pair were left home alone by their mother while her husband was at work, say law enforcement.

Upon hearing a girl screaming from a fourth-floor window, onlookers noticed the baby lying motionless on the ground.

Witnesses said their ‘knees went weak’ at the horrific sight.

Paramedics confirmed the 21-day-old’s death at the location after dropping onto concrete from a residential building in Vasilyevo village, Russia.

‘A criminal case has been opened over the death of the infant,’ said the Russian Investigative Committee.

Their mother is currently facing jail time.

Investigators are investigating whether the five-year-old was ‘jealous’ of the new baby, and the mother’s reason for leaving her daughters home alone.

One report said she was visiting a friend.

‘The actions of the parents who left the children unattended, as well as other possible scenarios, are being investigated.’ 

A report citing local sources said: ‘The girl was upset that there was another child in the flat, and out of jealousy, she threw the infant out of the window.’

District chief in Zelenodolsk, Tatarstan, Mikhail Afanasyev, said: ‘Law enforcement officers are now investigating the situation.

‘I express my condolences to the family of the deceased and urge all parents to be vigilant and never leave your children alone.’

Who in the world would leave their 5-year-old unattended with a newborn? Could it be that she had hurried to a neighbour for something?

Is there no safety catch on Russian windows? If the mother had gone to the loo, this might have also occurred.

We have no idea how long the mother was out of the apartment for, and for what reason, so trial by the media is always inadvisable. Visualise having to parent a child who killed your newborn.

The child clearly had no idea what she was doing. Children of that age have a limited understanding, and this child will need a lot of help due to the guilt of their actions, which will likely stay with them for the rest of their lives.

However, for this reason, apartment buildings should not house children, and kid restrictors should be installed in every window.

WEDDINGS With Artificial Intelligence

Finding the ideal outfit, writing speeches, and sending out invitations are just a few of the many tasks involved in wedding planning.

But now, numerous couples are saying ‘AI do’ to ChatGPT, as they rely on artificial intelligence to pull together their big day.

One surprised bride-to-be revealed the bot’s capacity to write touching wedding vows was better than her own when tested in the lead-up to her wedding.

In a TikTok, Lynnzee Highland from Seattle prompted ChatGPT to compose words that were ‘funny and romantic’, adding: ‘My fiance really knows how to make me laugh. We love running together, even though I can hardly keep up. 

‘We also love hiking and travel. I’m so proud of everything he’s accomplished and excited for everything we will accomplish together.’

At first, the bot delivered some cheesy results, pulling chat-up lines such as ‘you’re the Robin to my Batman’ or ‘the peanut butter to my jelly’.

But when Lynnzee refined her request, the results were shockingly personal with a tinge of romance.

Her vows read: ‘As we stand here on this special day, I can’t help but feel overwhelmed with happiness and love. From the moment I met you, you’ve made me laugh like no one else can.

‘Even though I can hardly keep up with you when we’re running, I always feel like we’re in perfect sync when we’re together. And when we’re hiking or travelling, I know that no matter where we go, it’s the journey with you that makes it truly unforgettable.

‘I’m so proud of everything you’ve accomplished, and I can’t wait to see what we’ll accomplish together. As your partner, I vow to support you through all of life’s ups and downs. To be your rock when you need me and celebrate our successes along the way.

‘As we start this chapter of our lives, I promise to love you unconditionally, to be honest with you always and to never take for granted the beautiful life we’re building together.’

Justin Fineberg, an AI strategist, also utilised the bot to compose a speech for his friend’s wedding.

In a TikTok, he said: ‘The pressure is totally on because I am not a good speech writer. So I’m putting “write me a wedding speech for my best friend.’

Justin referred to several remembrances in his prompt, including the time he ‘lost his keys in Italy’ and how ‘his wife is a much better cook’.

The bot touched on these moments in its speech, writing: ‘One of my favourite memories with [name] was when we took a trip to Italy together. He is the most organised person I know, but somehow he managed to lose his car keys on the first day of our trip.

‘Instead of panicking, [name] just laughed it off and found a solution. Of course, that solution involved hotwiring a scooter and driving it through the winding streets of Rome.’

It then continued: ‘[Name] may be a great filmmaker, but he will never be able to hold a candle to Haley’s cooking skills. In fact, I think we should all just be grateful that she agreed to marry [name] despite his complete lack of culinary ability.’ 

These TikToks come at a time when even wedding planners are recommending ChatGPT for those planning to tie the knot.

Agency Getting Married in Denmark praised the bot’s capability to give 24-hour support – sharing advice when a human planner isn’t around.

Choosing the perfect vendors, venue and creating a ‘wedding vision’ were among multiple tasks the bot could take care of, if requested.

Additionally, ChatGPT can assist you in creating invites and offer wardrobe suggestions.

Director and co-owner, Rasmus Sørensen, told MailOnline: ‘ChatGPT can help you plan your dream wedding in Denmark by giving you personalised advice and guidance based on what you want and love. 

‘It can find you the perfect venue, match you with the right vendors, and take care of the paperwork and legalities for you. You can chat with it anytime you need support or have questions about your wedding. It will save you time and stress by giving you instant responses and guidance.’

Questions about the potential impact this may have on the future commercial side of wedding planning have not yet received a response from the firm.

However, its director did say: ‘You can relax and enjoy your engagement and wedding day while it handles everything for you. 

‘AI seems to be the ultimate assistant for wedding planning, and I encourage you to give it a try and see how it can make your wedding planning experience stress-free and unforgettable.’

Despite its usefulness, some have raised apprehensions over the impacts of using ChatGPT in relationships.

One Twitter user said: ‘What are the most morally corrupt things you could use ChatGPT for? I’ll start: wedding vows.’

Another added: ‘Holy smokes! Is nothing sacred?! Newlyweds are using #ChatGPT to write vows, toasts, etc.’

Meanwhile, relationship psychologist Linzi Kavanagh also added that vows produced by a robot could seem ‘cold, impersonal and meaningless’.  

She told MailOnline: ‘Whilst some people may have been planning for their wedding since they were a child and relish the idea of finally getting to do it for real, not everyone who has to plan a wedding has the skills, knowledge or even the want to organise such an event.

‘ChatGPT can lessen the stress of this, make it a bit more fun and enjoyable and possibly even reduce the arguments between couples in the run-up to the big day.

‘But what about using ChatGPT to write your vows and speeches? Some people’s immediate reaction to that is often a hard “no”. Vows written essentially by a robot could be viewed as cold, impersonal and meaningless.

‘If there has been no big effort to write from the heart, how can those words be spoken from the heart? However, is there a difference between googling “romantic wedding vows” and copying out what you find online? Or buying some slushy Hallmark cards and merging together what you find inside those?’

As a result, Ms Kavanagh advises that both partners need to be on board with using the bot before it is put to the test in a wedding scenario.

She added: ‘If it comes out down the line in their marriage that whilst one of them sat for hours, listening to their heart and pouring out what was coming from it down onto paper, them rewriting several drafts to get it just perfect, and the other spent precisely 2.5 seconds printing something from ChatGPT, the efforts may feel unmatched.

‘So honesty is the best policy here. If one party is really struggling and wants to use the help of ChatGPT, it should be discussed together openly and honestly.’

Artificially intelligent chatbots have become so powerful that they can influence how users make life-or-death decisions, a study has asserted.

Researchers found that people’s opinion on whether they would sacrifice one person to save five was swayed by answers given by ChatGPT, and they have called for future bots to be forbidden from giving guidance on ethical matters, cautioning that the current software ‘threatens to corrupt’ people’s ethical judgment and may prove dangerous to ‘naïve’ users.

The findings – published in the journal Scientific Reports – come after the grieving widow of a Belgian man claimed he had been encouraged to take his own life by an AI chatbot.

Others have told how the software, which is designed to talk like a human, can display signs of jealousy – even telling people to leave their marriage.

We are a regressing civilisation, and now people rely on computers to do everything for them, not because they’re lazy, just because they can!

‘Batman to my Superman.’ It’s not only cheesy, but the bot left out the Incredible Hulk entirely.

Ryan Gosling’s New Life In Hampstead

Ryan Gosling’s appearance in Hampstead has mothers swooning at the school gates and diners taking double-takes while consuming their food.

Yesterday, the Mail on Sunday revealed the La La Land star, 44, relocated from Trump’s US and purchased a London home with wife Eva Mendes and their daughters Esmerelda, 11, and Amada Lee, nine.

And houses don’t come cheap in the wealthy north London location they now call home, with the average expense of a home in Hampstead coming to £1,533,972, flats going for £996,703, and semi-detached properties fetching £4,224,100 in 2024.

However, the Hollywood hunk isn’t the only A-lister to live in the exclusive London location, joining the likes of Harry Styles, Jude Law, Emma Thompson, and even Ricky Gervais, who resides in a £14.5 million bolthole.

But even though they are accustomed to seeing celebrities, the Bladerunner actor’s attractiveness has been drawing attention from the locals, especially on his most recent visit to a Persian eatery.

Posting to Instagram, Hana Restaurant described it as a ‘true honour’ for both the owner and his son to ‘welcome’ and ‘serve’ the heartthrob and his family.

‘Their warmth, kindness, and appreciation for our Persian cuisine made these evenings unforgettable,’ the restaurant wrote.

‘What made it even more special was how our guests at Hana respected their privacy, allowing the family to relax and enjoy their dining experience in comfort. 

‘Moments like these remind us why hospitality is at the heart of everything we do.’

But it isn’t only diners’ heads that have been left in a spin; the hearthrob’s visit to the local school to pick up his children has also left the mothers of Hampstead swooning.

Of his most recent visit, a Hampstead local said: ‘Yes, he’s here and so delightful chatting to everyone at the school gate – such a lovely man.

‘And everyone can’t stop talking about how good looking he is, the mums are practically drooling over him.’

Gosling’s arrival has generated much excitement in the area, with one person revealing on Instagram’s Threads that the actor had held a door open for them: ‘Today’s unexpected adventure, Ryan Gosling holding the door open for me at a cafe in West Hampstead. What a gent!… Quite unexpected, really!’

As of 2024, Gosling boasted a net worth of £55 million, while his movie star wife’s net worth was valued at about £15,000,000.

Former American actress Ms Mendes, 51, met Canadian-born Gosling on the set of the 2012 thriller Place Beyond The Pines, and they were married in 2022. Ms Mendes withdrew from acting around the time her first daughter was born.

Gosling is in London filming the forthcoming Star Wars film, Starfighter, but it is also believed he moved his family from the US to flee the ‘unstable’ political landscape. 

Known as the ‘Donald Dash’, other celebs who moved to the UK as President Trump took office include former chat show host Ellen DeGeneres, who lives in the Cotswolds with her wife Portia de Rossi, and Gosling’s Barbie co-star America Ferrera, who has reportedly moved to south-west London.

The megapop sensation Harry Styles, who is thought to possess four houses on the same upscale Hampstead street, is one of his more direct neighbours.

It comes as his neighbours hit out over worries his £30 million Hampstead mega mansion will blot out sunlight to their homes and leave them battling for a ‘right to light’.

The singer, 31, has already begun remodelling his future home in one of London’s most affluent neighbourhoods, a project that won’t be finished until late 2027.

He is creating a stunning pad with four bedrooms, a gym, a movie theatre, an art gallery, and staff quarters by uniting two opulent residences on a private estate north of the city.

Soon afterwards, it was reported he had snapped up another sprawling property in the same area – his fourth house on the same street.

However, some of the pop star’s new well-to-do neighbours worry the former One Direction singer’s expansive city retreat will be ‘overbearing’.

While others have fumed, it is ‘sad living next to a building site all the time’.

One resident told the Telegraph: ‘It’s sad living next to a building site all the time. This road didn’t used to be like this. All the houses are now constantly being bought by millionaires and redone.

‘There’s another house down at the bottom of the road, which I’m sure will be bought up and renovated like the others.

‘There’s also unfortunately less community among the neighbours than there was since people have moved on from the area.’

While they have raised concerns, no new official complaints have been made about the property. The Daily Mail contacted representatives for Harry for comment. 

And Styles isn’t the only celeb in Gosling’s neighbourhood, with British funnyman Ricky Gervais calling a £14.5 million Hampstead residence home. 

Gervais, worth an estimated £120 million, bought the mansion in March 2024, previously revealing that a significant element behind the move was his desire for a larger garden to build a tennis court. 

However, the comic, 63, has confessed the sprawling mansion is unlikely to be his ‘forever home’ as his long-term partner Jane Fallon, 63, raised concerns about the couple living there in their eighties.

‘But I didn’t die, and I wanted a tennis court, so we had to move to a bigger house with a bigger garden just so we could get a tennis court, and I just thought this is amazing, this is perfect. It’s not even finished yet, but I love it.

‘But the other day, Jane went ‘We can’t live here when we’re 80’. So that’s like a ticking clock. She said, ‘There’s all these stairs.’ So I’m going to be moving when I’m 80.’

He added: ‘But I said let’s not move, let’s just move in a load of doctors, nurses and security.

Ricky said, ‘I thought the last house was the one I was going to die in. 

‘I could have a team living inside. A driver, someone who I could play table tennis with, so that would be better.

‘Moving at 80 with all this s*** again. I don’t want to think about it. Jane did most of it anyway.’

Gosling and his family resided in Notting Hill when he was filming Project Hail Mary, so this is not his first relocation to London.

They briefly moved back to California before settling in Hampstead, an area that appears they have been eyeing up for some time, after they were reportedly seen house hunting in 2022.

Gosling and Mendes were escaping Trump’s US, yet they came to London – they obviously didn’t think that through properly!

They were clearly not fleeing Trump’s US – it’s not a war zone, well, not yet anyhow. They actually need to look around them; there is disorder, criminality and instability everywhere. Talk about jumping from the frying pan back into the fire!

They think that they’ve escaped something by leaving Trump’s America, but all they did was trade freedom and opportunity for a crumbling, overtaxed mess.

The UK is drowning in regulations, criminality and migrant disorder, and we’re supposed to be the upgrade?

The Grooming Gangs Inquiry Won’t Be Rushed

Amid outrage at the increasing chaos engulfing the government, a minister cautioned that Labour will not hurry to establish a significant new investigation into the grooming gangs crisis.

Cabinet Office minister Nick Thomas-Symonds said finding the right chairperson for the investigation is a ‘crucial appointment to get right’, after it emerged it could take months.

In response to strong pressure, Sir Keir Starmer agreed to conduct a comprehensive nationwide investigation into group-based child sex abuse in June.

However, after four months, no one has been appointed by the Home Office to head the investigation.

Jim Gamble, a former police officer, and Annie Hudson, a former senior social worker, both withdrew from consideration for the position of chair, leaving no further contenders.

The sense of chaos has been compounded by the departure of five women from the victims liaison panel – four of whom say they would be prepared to return if safeguarding minister Jess Phillips resigns.

However, five of those still on the advisory panel have said they would only stay if Ms Phillips remained in post. There were originally about 30 survivors on the panel.

Mr Thomas-Symonds told Times Radio: ‘What we are seeking to make sure is that you have a chair who has the confidence of all the victims, and it is an absolutely crucial appointment to get right, and the experience of previous inquiries has shown the difficulty of rushing to choose someone who then doesn’t command that confidence.’

He added: ‘We are acutely conscious of how long victims have waited for justice, but the chair appointment is absolutely crucial to making sure that the inquiry commands confidence.’

He said he had confidence in Ms Phillips as a ‘powerful advocate’ in politics and before becoming an MP.

Four women on the panel – Ellie-Ann Reynolds, Fiona Goddard, Elizabeth Harper, and a woman signed only as ‘Jessica’ – resigned this week and sent a letter outlining the requirements that must be met for them to return.

Those include Ms Phillips standing down, for the inquiry to be ‘laser-focused’ on grooming gangs, and for its chair to be a former or sitting judge.

They criticised Ms Phillips for labelling some of their claims about the scope of the inquiry being widened ‘untrue’, and said they had provided evidence to the contrary.

According to the source, the government will now get back in touch with survivors to hear their worries and get their input on who should be in charge of the investigation.

Baroness Louise Casey, who was called in to assist with the investigation, will collaborate closely with the government to identify a fresh pool of potential chair candidates.

Mr Gamble said he had pulled out of the appointment process because of a ‘lack of confidence’ in him among some survivors because of his police background.

He also hit out at politicians ‘playing games’ with the inquiry and said victims had been ‘disrespected and misinformed’.

The five backing Ms Phillips said in a letter to the Prime Minister and Home Secretary Shabana Mahmood that her retaining her role is one of the conditions for their continued participation.

They wrote that the minister has ‘remained impartial’ and ‘we want her to remain in position for the duration of the process for consistency’.

They said they had asked for the scope to be larger than grooming gangs because some survivors would be excluded for not fitting the ‘generalised stereotype’ of what that includes.

Sir Keir Starmer has said he ‘of course’ has faith in Ms Phillips, as other ministers also rallied around her.

‘Won’t be rushed.’ Are they having a laugh, but when Starmer became Prime Minister, it didn’t take him too long to muster his cabinet together, but they are certainly keen to let migrants and the rape of our women happen, yet everyone is turning a blind eye to it.

If it’s not a rat you can smell, it’s the overwhelming stink of corruption coming from our government.

Labour must be coerced into starting this investigation. They obviously don’t want it, or else they would have done it by now, and they appear to be doing all in their power to prevent it, proving once again that our government are a national disgrace.

They said they won’t be rushed – I’ve seen snails on Valium that move faster. It’s one massive cover-up, and Starmer knows it.

The Death Of An Essex Man Was Preventable

The death of a 20-year-old described as a “beautiful soul” was directly contributed to by the non-availability of an in-patient bed in a Mental Health Assessment Unit, a report has concluded.

Jack Peatling spent six days at home awaiting a bed before taking his own life on June 5, 2023.

A prevention of future deaths report says he had been diagnosed with anxiety and depression and had made previous attempts at taking his own life and repeated self-harm, including two previous serious attempts on May 29, 2023.

Following a formal assessment at Basildon Hospital the next day, Jack’s admission to a Mental Health Assessment Unit was documented as urgent and necessary for the proper evaluation, management and treatment of his anxiety and depression and his impulsive suicide attempts.

With the agreement of Jack and his mother, the assessment determined that, in the context of his continuous very high level risk, with high levels of impulsivity, Jack could not be safely managed in the community.

Over the next six days, the Essex Partnership University NHS Foundation Trust (EPUT) were unable to identify the needed in-patient bed anywhere in Essex.

Evidence established that the need for such beds outstripped supply and that this had been and remained a chronic problem, locally and nationally.

As it was acknowledged by the professionals involved that his risk of suicide could not be safely managed in the community, it was ruled that Jack’s demise was “avoidable” and “had an in-patient bed been made available, he would probably not have died”.

Essex coroner Sean Horstead has stated to the Department of Health and Social Security, warning that a lack of bed space could lead to further tragedies.

In response, a Government spokesman said the Department of Health and Social Care has instructed the NHS to prioritise improving the availability of mental health beds.

Jack’s case was included in a Lampard Inquiry submission in September 2024. The Lampard Inquiry is investigating deaths at NHS-run inpatient units in Essex between 2000 and 2023.

His father, Jamie, told the hearing: “Jack had so much to offer this world, and he died. We do not have the words to describe the loss of Jack on our family. Jack completed our world and built on that. He was the most beautiful soul and yet so troubled. The gap, grief and guilt that we feel as a family is indescribable.

“He was our world, and without him the sun has gone down, and our hearts are broken. We are left feeling as though we were responsible for not fighting harder for him to get the support he needed and wanted.

“He was so brave.”

Describing the problems with Jack’s care, Jamie added that the family thought a corner had been turned when they were told he needed to be admitted immediately, and Jack agreed.

“The following days, with daily visits, were unbearable,” he explained.

“Every day, Jack became more anxious, every day Jack would say that he was struggling more with increased anxiety, every day Jack would say that he would likely kill himself, and every day being told that there was no bed available.

“We were told that Jack was high priority, and despite this high priority, nothing changed. The mental health team agreed he needed to be admitted immediately, noting that his impulsive behaviour increased his risk, but there were no beds, and he was not admitted.”

A Department of Health and Social Care spokesperson said: “Our deepest sympathies are with Jack’s family and friends. We’ve instructed the NHS to prioritise improving the availability of mental health beds, and we are investing £75 million this year to reduce inappropriate out-of-area placements so that patients can receive care closer to home.

“To reduce the number of mental health inpatients and ensure people are getting appropriate care, we are working to provide the mental health support they need in the community, including by recruiting 8,500 more mental health workers and investing £26 million in new mental health crisis centres.”

This is clearly not true, though, because back in September 2017, a 20-year-old died at Chelmsford Mental Health Unit – he hung himself.

Investigations were then expanded with officers confirming that they were looking at 25 deaths, and MPs called for a public inquiry after concerns were raised at patients’ inquests.

After Matthew Leahy was discovered hanging at the Linden Centre in Chelmsford, Essex, detectives began looking into the deaths of seven people in the care of North Essex Partnership NHS Foundation Trust.

The investigation was then expanded to investigate the deaths of up to 25 people at nine additional mental health units run by the trust since 2000.

Norman Lamb and Priti Patel, who served as several of the families’ local MPs, pushed Health Secretary Jeremy Hunt to launch a public investigation.

The Care Quality Commission report found that there was room for improvement, and that there were too many areas at the Linden Centre where patients could hang themselves.

Matthew Leahy was not allowed any visitors, not even his own family, not for the first seven days, because they considered it an adjustment.

Mental health patients require the support of their family, or even a close friend if they don’t have family. They don’t need to be stressed out any more than is needed, but sadly, their idea of treatment is to medicate and leave them like vegetables. This is not the 18th century anymore, and admittedly, they know more about mental health than they used to, but it’s really all a guessing game. Unfortunately, this poor soul died a week after being admitted.

Some have called the Linden Ward ‘the sleepy ward’ because all the patients are bored, and most of the patients were left drifting.

It was said that some of the staff were good with the patients, but the majority didn’t have a lot going on in terms of treatment.

Some of the patients are even bullied out of the hospital because there just isn’t enough room, so there’s a lot of pressure to get these patients out.

This doesn’t surprise me. The psychiatrists and nurses in the UK are now so poor in attitude and skills that they are just an embarrassment. Not that the psychiatrists do much, but the nurses should at least make some kind of effort. Unfortunately, now they are just lazy or have the wrong motivation, ie they are there for the money and not to work.

I’m not saying that they are all bad; there are some good ones, but they are very few and far between.

Then there was the neglect caused by repeated failures to assess a woman going through a mental health crisis, which contributed to her death by suicide at Pitsea Station in Basildon after being struck by a train while she was suffering a decline in her mental health.

There were indeed mistakes made that contributed to her death. She had been released from a long-term mental hospital to a care home on April 11, 2023.

EPUT’s mental health services were informed by Mrs Steedman on April 15 that she wanted to end her life by ‘jumping in front of a train’. Her mental health continued to worsen in May, and this was escalated to mental health services on or about May 8, but they failed to reply.

By May 10, Mrs Steedman was in a mental health crisis, but mental health services again failed to attend and conduct an assessment of her. Mental health services failed to complete a mental health assessment on May 11. The next morning, she redirected a taxi to Pitsea railway station, where she killed herself.

On April 27, the care home alerted the mental health team and the council’s social care team that there was a chance Mrs Steedman could divert a taxi to leave carers’ supervision. However, this crisis was not escalated, and no risk assessment was conducted.

Sadly, mental health is not an exact science, but there should be more facilities and more suitable training. However, unless we go back to bedlam, locking people away forever, we can’t stop people from taking their own lives, but there does need to be more that we can do, and that we must do for these people.

Jamie Harding, aged 31, took his own life. The Essex Coroner, who investigated the death of Jamie, cautioned that until steps were taken by Essex Partnership University NHS Foundation Trust (EPUT), there was an ongoing danger that more mental health patients could perish.

Jamie took his own life in June 2022, hours after being released from Basildon Hospital, where he had attended A&E, asking to be admitted for his own safety.

The inquest found the assessment carried out on him in A&E was “inadequate”, and that there was also a string of “significant and repeated failures” in the care and treatment provided to Jamie in the six months before his death.

The Coroner found that the string of failures and missed opportunities by EPUT amounted to “neglect”, and this directly contributed to Jamie’s death.

Jamie’s mother, Carolyn Claydon, said: “Losing Jamie was devastating. We miss him every day and are still traumatised by how badly he was let down by those who should have been providing him with the treatment he desperately needed, and who should have kept him safe.”

But nothing changes; the mental health system is broken and failing.

There are close to 551,000 people in England with more severe mental illness (SMI), such as schizophrenia or bipolar disorder.

I understand that people might fall through the cracks from time to time, but that is just not good enough – we need to do better, much better!

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